Comments?
I love to comment on people’s blogs. I think all of us who blog secretly do so because we want to hear what other people have to say. So I wonder why, when I can clearly see that I have had a number of views, no one comments on my posts.
I don’t care if you agree with my posts or not, but feel free to post a comment so I know that at least someone is paying attention!
Erica
Meg said,
January 12, 2009 at 5:52 pm
It sounds like your winter blahs are taking over. See how you feel about Erica in the spring.
ctcrossdresser said,
January 13, 2009 at 8:46 pm
Not a surprise that I would receive a comment like yours. Many gurls find it incredulous that someone would actually want to stop crossdressing. I guess it comes down to this question: Would I rather be a crossdresser, or a good husband, person, teacher, and (eventually) father? Having lived with myself for 28 years, I can say that there is no way I can be both. I can be one or the other, but my crossdressing makes me selfish and inconsiderate of those around me. It also distracts me from my work and responsibilities. Therefore, I can be one or the other, but not both. I choose to be a good person and husband.
Aubrey said,
January 13, 2009 at 6:37 pm
I posted a comment on your most recent entry and now it seems to have vanished…
ctcrossdresser said,
January 13, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Thank you so much. I don’t know if you realize how much my wife and I admired your site and your blog, and we hoped to model our relationship after the one you and your wife appear to have. However, as much as it pains me, I cannot continue to run my life as two separate people. One is responsible (usually), caring and intelligent. The other is selfish and risky. I’m sure you understand, and it seems you have struck a good and healthy balance between your two “sides”. I have never been able to find that balance, which makes it clear to me that I can only have one side. I’m not saying that I would ever transition, but crossdressing for me often overtakes all my rational thought and depresses and saddens me.
Our fist step though is to make sure this is not a purge. Already I find myself wanting to dress, but am constantly reminding myself that this is the best choice I can make.
Hope all is well!
Kay Henderson said,
January 19, 2009 at 11:22 am
Erica…
Much of what you have said here resonates with thoughts I have had and changes I have been through on the way to learning who I really am.
Everyone’s different, of course, but I do know from personal experience that trying to keep your feminine side under wraps may well make you worse as a husband and partner rather than better.
If you have not already done so, I invite you to visit my blog at http://anotherself.blogstream.com for some additional insight.
Incidentally, I admire the quality of your writing.
KAY HENDERSON
Erich said,
January 20, 2009 at 12:38 am
Hey Erica,
I’ve been trying to respond to your last email (made a giant breakthrough that I think you owe some cred on), but your email’s not working (I’m guessing you took it down already). Sounds like things are going well for you, thanks for your response!
Trish said,
January 24, 2009 at 8:30 pm
John,type Darkside of crossdresseng in google and click on Controlling the urge. it may help.